Well Meaning

People are just people. They are in their own sphere, they have a limited view beyond 1 foot around them. This is why when someone is grieving a loss, they say things are said that are inappropriate, smothering, controlling.... even if they have gone through a loss. I am always in shock when someone asks me:"How does your house feel? I will bet it feels lonesome." And the only thing left for me to do is to thank them for their input. Let's not try to fix people when they are grieving. They just need support and love, not advice hos to get along.